Dating people in the office
If what you are doing seems like work, you’re either in the wrong industry or you’re not doing it right.” This is a pretty good distillation of how a lot of college-educated, passionate twentysomethings prefer to see their work lives — no matter how grueling the hours are.
If work isn’t work anymore, why would a workplace romance be off-limits?
Despite all the cautionary tales regarding the dangers of office romance, countless employees wind up in relationships with co-workers every year.
And as you might expect when two people try to maintain both a business and emotional relationship – while spending virtually every waking hour together keeping the whole thing a secret – workplace dating often ends in tears.
But when this person is a work colleague, you may still have to maintain a professional relationship no matter how badly things end.At thriving creative and tech companies, where employees are given dormlike amenities like yoga classes and cocktail hours, it seems almost silly to draw the line at dating.Crispin Porter & Bogusky, a global ad agency with offices in five cities, even offers to pay for the wedding if two employees meet and fall in love at work and agree to get married in one of the offices.website says, “Work is a bad word to explain what we do.The phrase "don’t dip your pen in the company ink" is a well-worn cliché, and some companies are so concerned about the negative effects of office romances that they expressly prohibit workplace dating.Yet, despite this, co-workers continue to wind up in bed together, restrictions and warnings be damned.And what better place to find people who share your passions?“My options sometimes feel like it’s either work or Tinder,” one friend recently said to me, only half joking.So if workplace dating is such a bad idea, why do employees keep doing it?Is it because the stress of working together creates a unique bond between people?And forget about asking them, "So how was your day? You have to act differently around each other at work. If other people find out that you're dating, it may alter their perception of you, so you have to work extra hard to keep things a secret. You know, that daily conversation you have with the office receptionist that's laced with sexual innuendo but you have no intention of ever acting on?Despite the fact that you just want to give them a big kiss, you have to maintain a sense of professionalism at all times. It's a lot harder than it sounds and will make working together even more awkward! Not to mention that you'll constantly be questioning yourself whether you're doing a good job at it or not, and you'll start to become super critical and overly aware of every interaction you two have, which could make things harder on the relationship in general...1. If you work with your girlfriend/boyfriend, that simply ain't gonna fly.