Does the quran allow dating
My findings brought me to the realization that dating is a process which occupies a great deal of your emotions and tempts you physically so fast that you don't realize what hit you. The "game of dating" --especially if you're a Muslim-- inevitably spins out of control and becomes very hard to maintain.
Chastity is defined Quranically in 23:6 as avoiding sexual relations.Let me break the suspense by saying that I have yet to find that one verse.The good news is that my search has given me a much better understanding of this difficult question.However, if you are giving in to your urges and satisfying your physical desires, I suggest you fasten your seat belt before continuing to read some of the verses I come cross in the Qur’an.There are clear verses in the Qur’an against the natural results of dating; from the seemingly innocent kiss to the more obvious.I hate to take something from a song, much less a Beyonce song but in this case, "If you want it, then you better put a ring on it." (Of course when it comes to Muslims, you don't need a ring to get married but you get my point.)Basically, Dating makes you forget about Allah (obeying him, doing the right thing).The daily challenge of obeying Allah and doing the right thing becomes harder and less active in your mind as you become increasingly attracted to your mate with your thoughts, emotions, and time.Although you may use good arguments to comfort your mind that your actions are harmless, your soul feels the energy being zapped away and becomes weaker and more vulnerable.The time and attention you give to your emotional attachment is the precious strength your soul needs to grow.As they are dating, they do not become physically intimate. And they must have permission from their parents or other older people to date one another. You'll find a lot of people there with different backgrounds and cultural values." Obaid Akram says he once supported so-called “arranged marriages,” in which family members bring a man and woman together to be married.But he says finding a wife through a website was easier. “Online dating has impacted our work, because it’s so easy to go to the website and create a profile for a nominal fee.