No more dating im just waiting
One reason guys do this is to avoid appearing needy and desperate.But as I’ve said before, neediness comes down to your mindset.It also makes it feel like you’re hung up on why she didn’t respond.You also don’t want to invite her out as your first message back to her.When a woman is talking to a new guy, she’s cautious about the situation.
I’m not saying to pretend like you’re cool and aloof.I’d check my phone constantly, worry about whether or not I should send another text, and always wonder WHY…why is she not talking to me?Ten years later, I now know that worrying about it was a waste of time.Maybe she is waiting to respond because it’s not her top priority in the moment. Or maybe she just became bored of the conversation.Regardless of the reason, hitting her up again within 24 hours almost never yields good results.I know you might feel lost when reinitiating with a girl who went quiet.Your natural inclination may be to double check if she received your message or repeat the same topic.He’s going to be productive, hang out with friends, do something fun for himself, and talk to other women.He’s sitting at home agonizing over the response time of a girl he barely knows.For example, perhaps she went silent after you asked her what she’s doing on Thursday. “I guess sitting at home and not talking to anyone then =P” [Making fun of her not answering] “So what did you end up doing Thursday?” [Asking her after the fact] “Not sure if you got my last message but I was wondering what your plans were for Thursday? Even when you think you’re being sarcastic about her lack of reply, you’re coming off as passive-aggressive and bitter.