Quotes dating wrong guy
Before you even spoke to this man, your mate selection mechanism was set on heartache.But the good news is, you can change your “Love Picker” and turn on your “Love Switch.” Why do we pick the wrong people?I once started to develop feelings for someone and as I started to open up to him, he reacted with aloofness and indifference. My natural reaction was to try harder, initiate more, and stick around in hopes he would turn around.
You may even notice that more opportunities will show up to meet nice guys, and that friends will come out of nowhere to introduce you to someone worthy.Smart, beautiful, incredible individuals – who give 110% to a man who in return, are only half-vested, part-time, and approach the relationship with a “me”, not “we” mentality. You invest more – only to find yourself more disappointed, depleted and feeling insignificant with each attempt to create/repair the connection. Jeremy Nicholson calls the principle of “sunk costs”.While your friends see that your relationship is unhealthy, and your rational mind does too, you just can’t seem to get out. “Doing favors for others and treating them well, leads us to value and love them…They do all of the “doing”.You don’t have to change how you act, your clothes, your weight, or your personality; you just need to shift your piece of the puzzle.When your puzzle piece shifts, you will see that the men or women you meet will start to change as well.If you don’t change your mate selection mechanism, you will subconsciously choose the same heartache every time.You will ignore the obvious red flags, believing, that “this relationship” will be different … The key to finding true love is to discover the mechanism in your subconscious (we call it your inner Adam or Eve), which fits like a puzzle piece with potential partners.You can have conscious chemistry with someone who wants commitment and love just like you.You will feel the fireworks, but it won’t be followed by a night of Ben & Jerry’s on the couch (unless you and your partner enjoy sweet treats together).There are a few ways to change your “Love Picker.” In fact, your subconscious mind is always giving you clues on how to change it.It keeps bringing you heartache so that you can finally make an adjustment.